Tell you what, here are some specifics. I won't bring it up or comment on it again.
A Bruce Feldman article from ESPN that provides a temperate accounting in lieu of rumor or speculation. I've copied and pasted it below as it's for insiders only. At the time it was widely available through multiple sources.
And here's a link to the sentencing memorandum that illuminates a number of other misconceptions and explains why under Oregon state law immediate arrest is required if domestic abuse is even suspected....
http://www.scribd.com/theoregonian/d/282...Memorandum
Here's the Feldman link:
http://insider.espn.go.com/ncf/blog?name...id=5448507
Bruce Feldman Blog
The path back for LaMichael James
August, 9, 2010
08/09/10
7:51
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By Bruce Feldman
The 2009 season saw LaMichael James become a star almost literally overnight. He ran for 1,546 yards -- a Pac-10 freshman record -- and helped rescue the Oregon offense that looked dismal in an opening night loss at Boise State. A few months after the season ended though, the 5-foot-9, 185-pound back from Texas learned just how quickly that world can be turned upside down.
In February, James was arrested on domestic violence charges and put in jail after an altercation with his ex-girlfriend. The incident followed a host of embarrassing winter off-field news for Oregon that began almost a month earlier with QB Jeremiah Masoli (now at Ole Miss) accused in connection with a theft at a frat-house party.
Many teams' names are dragged through the muck by offseason police-blotter news, but you rarely see one team -- especially one coming off a Rose Bowl appearance -- have its two highest-profile players in the news in this way.
Of all the news, the story involving James probably stunned the Oregon football community more than any other. James had been raised by women, in a home with his grandmother, mother and big sister (12 years his senior). Coaches rave about his character. He's an honor student. His teachers often tell Ducks coaches what a great young man he is. Teammates say James might be the last guy on the team they could have imagined being jailed for something like this.
His ex-girlfriend had said he grabbed her neck during an argument and pushed her to the ground. The 20-year-old James pleaded not guilty to misdemeanor charges of menacing, strangulation and assault.
According to sources, James had a female friend from his hometown of Texarkana, Texas, visiting him. His ex-girlfriend at the time came by his home after James had left and knocked on his door to tell the other friend to come outside. The woman from Texas wouldn't let the ex-girlfriend in. The situation was escalating. The friend from Texas called James on his cell phone saying his ex was at his front door and she was very upset. "You need to come back," the friend told James. He did.
According to the police report, shortly after James arrived home, a struggle ensued as the ex-girlfriend got into his car and took his keys out of the ignition.
James' older sister, Tasha, who had developed a relationship with James' ex-girlfriend over the previous months, had actually spoken to both her brother and his ex-girlfriend at the time the incident took place and was bewildered when she learned that this was what had led to her brother being sent to jail.
"I'm thinking he should have never come back. He should've called the police and told them someone's at his apartment acting crazy. If he had done that, this situation never would've escalated. They had been broken up way before this had happened. I think what triggered everything was [that] he was still trying to befriend her because he knew how emotional she was," his sister said.
"Maybe that was the problem. Maybe he should've cut it clean, instead of still trying to be friends because he didn't want to hurt her. So when she went to his house, she first texted me and said '[Blank] is here.' [Blank] is a friend of LaMichael's from Texarkana. I said, 'How do you know she's there?'
"She said, 'I know she's there. I saw her. I've seen her here before.' Then she was laughing: 'I can't believe she's here, hahaha.'
"I called her. She said, 'LaMichael said he's going to call the police on me.' I said, 'You're at his house. It's probably best that you leave because I don't want you to get in trouble.'
"She then told me, 'The police officer is here.' I'm thinking that when she called me back that everything was OK and she was going home. When she talked to me, she had never mentioned anything about him hitting her or doing anything physical. She just said she was mad and she wanted to know why [blank] was there. I was consoling her the whole night and the next day. Then all of a sudden, I get a call two days later saying, 'LaMichael's in jail.'
"I was like, 'For what?' I had no clue. If he did this on a Monday, why did she wait 'til late Tuesday night?"
James spent three nights in jail surrounded by about 25 other men behind bars, he said.
"It's the worst thing, by far, that I've ever had to go through in my life, including the deaths of people close to me," he said. "I'm there thinking, 'I'm embarrassed for my family. I'm embarrassed for my team. I'm embarrassed for my school, where I'm from [in Texas], the community here.' Everyone knows me here. I'm held to higher standards. I'm supposed to be bigger than that. It really hurt because I couldn't say anything. I couldn't defend myself. I just walked around and was viewed as a person that I'm really not."
James said of his jail time that he "was on lockdown 24 hours a day," but did say the other men behind bars were very respectful to him. Perhaps the toughest part of dealing with the ordeal was calling his family back in Texas.
"I had to call my sister from jail," he said. "She really didn't understand. I'm the only guy in my family and they are very, very protective of me. This was my ex-girlfriend. They knew her. They were talking to her the same day. They didn't understand."
James' sister described the relationship as "fragile" and remembered a conversation that struck her as odd in retrospect.
"She first visited us a year ago. [LaMichael] brought her home. She seemed like a sweet person. After they had gotten back home, a week or two later, they'd had an argument. [LaMichael] said she was too possessive. She wanted him to spend more time with her, and he wasn't able to give up more time with his class schedule and with football. She called me up. She was screaming. She was hysterical about him moving his things out of her house. She said, 'He's leaving me! I don't want him to leave. Please stop him.' I thought it was strange. They had been going out for [just a few months] and she was acting like this. I just thought, 'Maybe she's just putting on.' I didn't know."
Part II following