09-11-2014, 07:03 AM
Quote:It's always been weak sauce to me when kids previously committed to Stanford all of a sudden claim they lost interest in Stanford, when the reality is they were admissions casualties. Just man up and say "I wasn't able to get in." It's even OK to add "I disagree with the decision and will use this as motivation wherever I do attend, and throughout my career." One can also say "It wasn't meant to be."
I agree with the sentiment, but I don't think kids should feel any need to discuss their academic shortcomings in public. All I ask is that they don't have a sour grapes reaction to their admissions feedback (or any reason for decommitting, quite frankly). Just move on and say you're really happy with your new choice of school.


