(07-19-2013, 03:54 PM)stupac2 link Wrote:[quote author=Publius link=topic=6741.msg64496#msg64496 date=1374273421]Speaking as somebody who was on the waiting list and was therefore option #1615, once I got in there was no way I wasn't going. And I never held a grudge about it. Now getting wait listed again at the GSB, that's another story.
General college admissions aren't nearly as personal as recruiting. This is a lot closer to being slow-played by a love interest than being wait-listed as a regular applicant.
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I think the wait list analogy is actually a really good one. And if you feel the general undergrad admissions process is too impersonal, consider graduate admissions. I felt the exact same way as Publius when I was waitlisted at my first choice for a Ph.D. program, and I was in frequent contact with some of the faculty, had met all the current students, sat in on some classes, etc..., all of which seems very much like camping at a football program, getting to know the coaches and current players, and so forth. It was very clear to me, even in personal conversation with some faculty members, that they had a few other students whom they preferred to me, but that is just the nature of how the process works. I wasn't the #1 student; ok. I was still hoping to finally get the offer, and I still would have gone there even if the offer came on the very last possible day.
(In retrospect its a great thing the offer never did come. After being unhappy at a fallback option, I applied for another round and ended up at a new first choice: Stanford.)
Unless the recruit has major ego issues, I would think he would just pick the school and football program that best fits with what he wants out of his college experience, once all the offers are in. The recruits likely know that recruiting hype and pecking order goes out the window anyway - if you want playing time, you're going to have to earn it in practice. I saw a quote recently from Ertz (I think) saying something like "you're all zero star players now" to the new players. I hope Stanford's focus on character in recruiting weeds out the recruits who don't realize that is how it works.